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‘Women are more vulnerable, more exposed in some ways, but also more hidden’


Reported by Debbie

Published on Wednesday, May 3rd, 2023

Reports

‘Women are more vulnerable, more exposed in some ways, but also more hidden’


Written by Debbie

Published on Wednesday, May 3rd, 2023

When you’re with a group of people, you tend to sleep out in the open. But when I was on my own, rather than sleep out on the street, I’d always find a quiet little back alley or go in the middle of big bushes and hide away. 

They do the yearly rough sleeper headcount but they tend to miss the women that are on their own, for that reason. We’re not out in the open. When you see 2 or 3 big burly blokes coming to you, you hide even more. It’s as simple as that. 

It’s the other people sleeping rough you’ve got to be careful of. You know, once the guys have got something into them, they can try and take advantage as well. I’ve got a scar there where one of the lads wouldn’t take no for an answer. He realised no was no when he ended up with a broken arm so, you know, fair trade. And none of the others ever tried anything after that.” 

So yeah, women are more vulnerable, more exposed in some ways, but more hidden as well.

Written by Debbie


51 years old, I've spent probably half of my life on and off as what would be called homeless. Includes periods on the streets, hostels, periods in temporary accommodation.  I've lived in so many hostels, it's ridiculous. Some that were basically a four bedroom shared house, which was great fun, you know, it was a good laugh. Another one, a hundred women in a hostel. Oh God, that was a nightmare. It just gets so bitchy.  I was one of the first in Manchester on the ABEN (A Bed Every Night) scheme. I spent two years living on a friend's sofa. I mean it was annoying because you don't have your own space. But he was a really good friend. I knew I was safe. We were more like brother and sister than anything else.  And then from there, I actually went into a rehab. And because you don't have a tenancy agreement - it's just a contract, a behavioural contract - you are classed as homeless there.  Thanks to that, I sorted my drug and alcohol problems out. Then got into volunteering with Shelter, and now I’m a Grow Trainee.  

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